Has this ever happened to you? You're dressed and ready for a morning on the town but then, you hear your baby grunting, you think "Oh, its just gas!" So you shrug it off until you hear a timer buzz and you realize your toddler has just baked a chocolate two layer cake in his diaper.  That ain't so bad, I mean, you can clean up the cake batter, until he decides he wants to play with it.  Moments later, you are both full of cake batter and now the two of you must re-bath, wash the clothes you had on and start the whole process over. 

You're frustrated, and you wanna call a case worker and sign your son up for the first available foster family but then while you're bathing him, he looks up at you and gives you a toothless grin that just melts your heart. The smile doesn't go away (neither does the smell of chocolate cake batter) and you realize this is your son and he has the most pure and unconditional love for you so you lovingly smile back and he says "Da-Da"! Ain't that a hoot?

I see now why so many kids are in the system to be adopted.  Sad to say, after this incident, I signed little Andrew up.  They promised to have a home for him by mid-May.