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View Article  Andrew makes it into the Star Tribune!

Remember the blog from last week about me re-naming Andrew to Michigan J. Frog? Cause he straight up clowned me in front of John Legend!  Well, Star Tribune gossip columnist CJ read it on the website and thought it was funny as hell.  Er'rebody except me thinks the story is funny.  Apparently Ms. Thang talked to her editors and  they decided to do a story on how my two year old son acted a fool in front of the Grammy winning R&B superstar! 

Let me just tell y'all something 'bout Ms. CJ, she is a hard pill to swallow.  She's great with kids, my two year old son fell in love with her.  But with adults, girlfriend ain't got the same charm.  We were in the beauty shop during the interview while she was taking some video of Andrew and the two of us were 'bout to fight. The owner of the salon was gonna call the cops. I swear, if I knew how to fight, I would have challenged her.  But y'all know I got beat up in 3rd grade by a cripple girl--so I ain't wanna take a chance on getting my wig split. 

Read the article about Andrew here and there is some video to go with it.

View Article  MinnPost writer 'Foxy Roxy' tells Letta's story


By Roxane Battle
MinnPost.com

At first glance, you might think you've arrived early for a block club meeting, a bible study or a small family gathering. The half-dozen or so chairs arranged in a semicircle and the light chatter in the room are clues something's about to begin.
 
And it is — only it's a meeting in the KSTP-TV studio in Saint Paul.

Just behind three very large floor cameras, guests are waiting for their appearance on the public affairs program "Crossroads," which airs Sunday mornings at 7:30 on KSTP's sister station KSTC Channel 45.

 

Since becoming the show's host a year ago, Sheletta Brundidge, 36, has interviewed her fair share of big names. Recording artist Mary J. Blige and "The View's" Joy Behar appeared via satellite. Motown legend Smokey Robinson and former syndicated talk show host Montel Williams stopped by the studio. The Minnesota Lynx players make regular appearances. As do a smattering of local officials and politicians. And then there are a bunch of ordinary, everyday folk like you and me. (Disclosure: I was on the show last March.) 

"This is a grassroots show for people who don't get the opportunity to be on TV," says Brundidge.
 
People of color, primarily.
 
"This is what I've always dreamed of — not just a television show, but something that has to do with communities of color because I feel so comfortable around my own people," says Brundidge, whose short pixie haircut and perfectly arched eyebrows frame a constant high-wattage grin. "This show really tries to shine a spotlight on the positive things that are happening in our community, and there aren't any other shows that are doing that in this market."

Hugs replace handshakes

Before taping a segment, Brundidge greets each of her guests the way you'd greet a friend. Hugs replace handshakes and there's such a comfort level that once guests are on the "Crossroads" set, most seem oblivious to the cameras and lights.

She wouldn't have it any other way.

"It's like a family. We don't shake hands. We hug and I tell people be casual because this is family and they can talk openly. It's like sitting down in the living room with your cousin."
 
The show is taped on Saturday mornings without a lot of the perks and frills often associated with television production. Brundidge does her own makeup. But she does have a wardrobe consultant: her husband.

"He picks out all the clothes. I'm like a tomboy. Outside the show I've got like a baseball cap on and a sweatshirt. My pants don't match but he is really into fashion, so he picks out the clothes the night before. Matches the shoes and matches the earrings, 'cuz otherwise I would be so raggedy."

A native of Houston, Texas, Brundidge describes herself as a little country.

"But in a good way," she says.

I would describe her as a plate of warm fried-green tomatoes — tart and sweet at the same time.

Once the cameras are on, Brundidge morphs into a polished professional who doesn't use a teleprompter, but instead ad-libs her on-camera introductions, nailing them in one take. She poses questions off the top of her head to her guests. Nothing is scripted.

"My husband is a spreadsheet guy and number-cruncher. He keeps telling me to write down my questions and I keep telling him I can't do that. So he forces me to do the research ahead of time so I kind of have it in the back of my mind."

Brundidge's husband Shawn, who works full time as a health care administrator, also helps her book guests for the show.

"We like read all the papers, La Prensa, the Hmong Times, Insight News, The Spokesman-Recorder, and he does a lot of community work. I do stuff in the community too. (Brundidge also writes a weekly column in the Spokesman-Recorder.) "We just keep our ear to the ground and any time we hear about something or know about something we call the people and invite them to come on the show," she says.

The day I stopped by the studio, an executive women's networking group, members of the Hispanic Chamber of Commerce, representatives from an African health and wellness program, and students from Dunwoody Academy High School were all scheduled to appear.

Need for focus

The show has been on the air at KSTP for decades. It was first called "The NAACP Forum," with local members of the NAACP and the Urban League volunteering to host the show.
 
"It was sort of a revolving door of hosts," says Mike Smith, KSTP and KSTC program director. "It had kind of lost its focus."
 
Brundidge, a KSTP employee at the time, approached Smith a year ago about taking over the show. They changed the show's name to "Crossroads" after a community affairs show Brundidge watched as a child.
 
Her impact was immediate.
 
"She really brought the dedicated focus that the show needed," said Smith. "She did such a great job with it that we gave her a better time period, from 5:30 in the morning to 7:30."
 
But just like her predecessors, Brundidge hosted the show for free, while also working part time as an assignment editor in the KSTP newsroom, a position she recently left because she wanted to focus on the show and spend more time with her 2-year-old son.
 
Conflict of interest?
With no money in the station's budget for a host position, Brundidge worked out a deal with the station's sales department to earn commission from selling ads.
 
A TV host who also sells air time?! Not something you run across every day.
 
"In my 30 years in television, we've never done anything like this before," says Smith. "She still wanted to have some sort of income, which makes sense, and this was the best way we could work it out."
 
I checked with the other three major television stations in town and confirmed what I suspected: Brundidge is the only on-air host who works double-duty selling advertising. And since she also books the show's guests, one journalist to another, you gotta wonder, given her background in news, if there's something a little, uh, funny about this arrangement, like uh, I don't know … maybe a conflict of interest?
 
"If I was still in the newsroom there is no way I could sell ads," says Brundidge. "But the way the show is structured, we focus on what's going on positively in the community and the ads are from business owners I know and respect and who have been guests on the show."

Smith says he doesn't see a conflict of interest either.
 
"No, because it really is not news. It's community; it's information. It's really an opportunity to do something different with the show and have it be successful. It may sound unusual, but it's worked so far," he says.
 
In just two months, Brundidge says she has sold five of the show's eight ad spots.

"What I do is identify minority-owned businesses that want to advertise but don't have the resources to do it and what we've done is we have structured a partnership package so that the ad rates for this show are half of what they would be on other shows," she says.

Brundidge says it was hard for her to learn how to make and then actually go on sales calls, especially since she has a toddler at home.

So since she couldn't go to potential clients, she found a way to bring them to her.
 
"I contacted all the minority businesses that I knew and asked them to come to the TV station. I told them we wanted to treat them to lunch and talk about a partnership opportunity to help them grow their business. The first lunch, 20 business owners showed up. The second lunch, 15 business owners came. And they said to me, 'Sheletta, this is the first time that we have had an opportunity to actually advertise and be able to afford it.' "
 
'What's a blog?'
Saleswoman is now just the latest addition to a growing list of her job titles. Brundidge, who earned a degree in radio and television from the University of Houston, moved to St. Paul four years ago after working as a producer and reporter for a community affairs show in Lake Charles, La.
 
In 2006 she was a finalist on Nick at Nite's Funniest Mom in America contest and now channels her split-second humor and natural comedic ability into a daily blog.
 
"Girl," she tells me, with her trademark Southern drawl surfacing, "at first I didn't know what a blog was. I thought it was something you eat at Christmastime. I was like, 'I don't eat blogs. They too sweet for me.' "
 
She obviously figured out the ins and outs of posting a successful web log. It won a regional Emmy last fall.
 
And she still gets her stand-up comedian fix by doing monthly monologues on Twin Cities Public Television's weekly political show "Almanac." Her next appearance on that show is July 11.
 
But "Crossroads" remains her focus.

The station says Brundidge has generated a greater interest in the show and an ever-so-slight increase in ratings. Not to mention advertising revenue. Program director Mike Smith doesn't see that changing.
 
"The success of Crossroads," says Smith, "is based on her performance as a host and as a saleswoman."
 
Brundidge admits, "Having to go out and sell ads in order to be able to eat is a challenge because it's not something I've ever done before." But she says it's all part of the goal of "Crossroads" — to foster a sense of community and give a voice to those who might not otherwise be heard.
 
"We had some women who came in here a few months ago and who had worked together 10 or 15 years ago," she says. "They reconnected on the show and now they're working on a book together."

View Article  Black Woman & Child Magazine shows love...
View Article  Minneapolis St Paul Magazine gives me lots of love
View Article  Andrew makes the gossip pages with his shirt off...
Did you see C.J.'s article on Christmas day? Andrew was in it, right next to Adrian Peterson!

View Article  I was so excited...
Digg!
when I picked up my copy of the Minnesota Spokesman Recorder newspaper and they featured an article on me--on the front cover--in COLOR! I just finished the 100th episode of The "Down Low Brotha" soap opera series that I write for them--and they rewarded me with a cover story. What a blessing! I'm a cover girl--eat your heart out Halle Berry--you ain't the only cover girl in town. Caroline Joseph, the columnist, did a fantastic job (although I did threatened her with bodily force if she didn't)--and in case you are wondering, Ms. Caroline was NOT allowed to use the restroom at my house--y'all know my rules...   more »
View Article  Photos for magazine article...
Talented photographer Vance Gellert came over last week and took some pictures of me, Shawn, Andrew, my web master Justin and his wife Susie for an article in Minneapolis St Paul Magazine.  Of course, the white folks gonna use the one where I got a crab stuck to my chin and make me look like a total doofus!  But we had a good time...
View Article  I'll be hanging out on the radio today...
with my girlfriend Colleen Cruz from 11 a.m. (CST) to 1 in the afternoon.  They called last night and asked if I could join her to talk about whatever it is women talk about when they get together. Last time FM 107 had me on the air--I said the word "nigger"--talking about that damn Dog The Bounty Hunter. I'm so tired of people saying "the N word"--that ain't what that racist bastard said--he said NIGGER!  And that's what I said.  They must be a glutton for punishment--cause they done invited me back.  You can listen to a live stream of the show by clicking here.
View Article  Take a break at 3:30 (CST) today...
and turn up the speakers on your computer--or pull out your boom box.  I'll be a special guest on FM 107's Laura & Julia show this afternoon at 3:30 (CST).  They're gonna chat with me about being one of the only black women in Minnesota--and how my skin done lightened up four shades since I got here three years ago.  I got two more winters until I am looking more and more like Brooke Shields.  If you wanna stream the show and hear it live, click here.  I'm sure I'll cut up so bad they'll never invite me back!
View Article  Clownin' at the Emmy Awards...
nearly cost me my "ride" home! I was so shocked when I won the award--that I started blabbing off at the mouth. The audience loved it--but Mr. Brundidge wasn't laughing--at least not outloud! Star Tribune gossip columnist CJ picked up on it--and did a story on my acceptance speech... and in the process, girlfriend clowned my poor co-worker Bob McNaney--who I thought did a terrific job as co-host of the night's festivities...   more »
View Article  Mary Wilson got me the Supreme mention...
in CJ's weekly gossip column in the Minneapolis Star Tribune newspaper. I did an interview with the original "Dream Girl" about week back for CrossRoads--and Mrs. Mary did NOT wanna talk about Dianna (What's her name again?) Ross. Well, gossip maven CJ picked up on it and did a little "ditty" on the whole scoop--and gave a little sister like me a lotta love in the process...    more »
View Article  My new BFF Colleen Kruse

I woke up EARLY this morning, packed up Andrew and headed to South Minneapolis to hang out with my new best buddy Colleen Kruse, from FM 107's The Andrew Zimmerman Show (weekdays from 1 PM to 3 PM).  She had me on as a guest for this morning's Friday Wake Up Call video blog.   We talked about everything from Paris Hilton to Halle Berry's baby's daddy.

I swear, Colleen could be the white version of me.  Girlfriend is hillarious--she does comedy--has two wonderful kids--and a husband that is a dead ringer for George Clooney (he is a hottie)!

To check out our early morning laugh fest, click here.

View Article  Getting, and giving much love...

Justin, my webmaster sent me a little "ditty" that another sister wrote about me on Honey Magazine's website!  I am so flattered... the magazine's website, called Honeymag.com has black entertainment news to the 4-1-1 on anything that has everything to do with black women.  The blog is currently  nominated for the 2008 Blackweb Awards. 

The one part of this site that I absolutely love is that the site has a Honey of the Week salute--where they shines a spotlight on sisters who are doing amazing things!  As black women--we should compliment one another and show each other as much love as possible... and that's what Honeymag.com and Honey magazine are all about.

View Article  What's it really like to be black in Minnesota?
I was invited by Al McFarlane to be a part of his weekly radio program on KFAI FM in Minneapolis.  We were supposed to talk about CrossRoads--but we soon ditched that plan and tackled the REAL state of black folks in Minnesota.  I realized after listening to the interview--I'm as country and ghetto as can be. We'll call it "ghetry".  To listen click here and be warned, I don't start talking until about 30 minutes into the program. There was a debate on before me for some city council seat--and I thought they weren't gonna ever shut the (*&$ up.  I darn near fell asleep until they called my name.


View Article  Black Newspapers give me much love...
Insight News--a weekly black publication in Minneapolis did a feature article on the CrossRoads television show that I produce!  The columnist who came out to do the interviews, Maya Beechum was the sweetest and nicest person I ever met.  She took her time--did all her interviews--made herself at home--and really tapped into what CrossRoads is all about.  She is my new best girlfriend now--we going shoe shopping at Pay Less on Friday when my food stamp check comes in.  You can read the article by clicking here


View Article  Are toys safe anymore?
One of the reporters with the Pioneer Press in Saint Paul called last week--asking about what I thought about the Mattel toy recall. I told her "I'm running out right now and getting all the lead based items--make Andrew lick on 'em--then call my attorney to get that class action lawsuit started! If it's made in China--it's part of his college tuition program!" Click more to read entire article...   more »